It might be natural to imagine that once you’ve booked a holiday home and it’s exclusively yours for the duration of your stay, it’s fine to invite extra friends or family along. Some owners might stipulate clearly that extra guests above the stated maximum occupancy aren’t permitted, but if there aren’t clear rules in the booking terms and conditions, it can be a grey area and can therefore cause problems.
Let’s imagine a couple who’ve booked a week’s holiday at a beautiful cottage in the Lake District and want a few friends to join them for a couple of days. They’ve paid for their holiday home and so assume that they’re well within their rights to invite people over. However, the issue of extra guests – whose names aren’t on the booking and who haven’t paid – is complex. What happens if one of those friends damages the property; if the larger party leads to noise complaints from the neighbours; or if the owner is left with excess debris to clear up afterwards? These are just a few of the issues that can arise.
In this article we will delve into some true stories that show the unwanted consequences of extra guests, as well as discussing how they can be detrimental to holiday let owners and their business.
Inviting extra guests: what can go wrong?
Throughout his years in the holiday letting industry, HCM’s founder Andrew Soye has encountered plenty of situations where the arrival of additional guests has created unwelcome complications. Let’s have a look at a few examples…
The bishop in the caravan
The housekeeper of a big holiday let spotted a large caravan on the driveway of said home, as well as electricity cables running through one of the windows and into the caravan. She told the property owner who was understandably angry. When the owner approached the guests to ask why there was a huge caravan parked at his holiday let and plugged into the mains, the guests replied by saying, “It’s a very important friend of ours who’s come to stay at the house for a while.”
Not only was an extra guest not allowed in this situation, where the property clearly stated a maximum occupancy, but it’s evident that powering a large caravan would never be permitted without prior agreement from the owner. When this was explained to the guests, their reply was, “But he’s a man of considerable standing, he’s a bishop!”
In reality, the man’s profession (however admirable) doesn’t automatically qualify him for a free holiday.
The garden party
There was a booking at a cottage where the maximum capacity was eight but regardless of this, the lead booker invited twenty-five people over for an afternoon birthday celebration. During the party the oven broke, which caused anger and complaints from the booker whose friends were left hungry and whose party was essentially, ruined.
It was only afterwards that the holiday let owner became aware that most of the angry people shouldn’t have even been at the cottage in the first place! Plus, the owner himself would have been negatively impacted by the situation: his insurance didn’t cover the larger group of people; there was the risk of more general wear and tear to his property; the consumption of his utilities and power was higher; and he was left with an abundance of waste to dispose of.
The wedding reception
A group booked a large holiday property with a spacious garden for the weekend and then proceeded to use the house for their wedding reception, with over eighty guests. The result was an extortionate cleaning bill (including the removal of glitter and confetti which had gotten everywhere), noise complaints from the neighbours, and damage to the property. Plus, the sheer volume of people created huge parking problems. In short, the behaviour of the guests was an awful abuse of the holiday let; clearly dismissing the rules regardless of how the owner would be affected.
Party crashers
Aside from our personal experience, in July 2025 The Times shared a story about a gender reveal party which saw a holiday home in Norfolk wrecked. After 200 people turned up and the party became ‘out of control’, the police got involved and turned up to the property in riot vans. According to reports, the party resulted in more than £2,000 worth of damage – a hefty cost and practical pain for the holiday let owner.
Read the full story here: https://www.thetimes.com/uk/crime/article/holiday-home-trashed-after-200-descend-on-gender-reveal-party-fdl8w6h6q
The impact on the property
The more people that use a holiday let, the more wear and tear there’s likely to be. It might not sound too dramatic but think about people using more towels and bedding; getting up and down from the sofa and moving chairs around so that people can be seated; more feet going back and forth across the grass; overuse of the kettle, toaster and oven. To put it simply, more people equals more usage and therefore more potential to cause damage and wear things down. This is especially the case where parties, animals, and children are concerned!
In the same vein, extra people means a higher consumption of electricity, water, and heating, and therefore unwanted costs for the owner. Plus, as we’ve mentioned in some extreme cases, the owner might even have to pay for a thorough deep clean of their holiday let, should the guests choose to host a party or wedding reception!
The impact on the owner
Aside from the physical effect on the property, having extra guests can be detrimental to an owner’s business in the sense that essentially, there are people enjoying the property without paying. In some situations, the booker is intentionally dishonest, knowing that they will have more people staying than is allowed but not wanting to pay for a bigger holiday house. Regardless of the process, inviting extra friends and family over to a holiday let means that there are people getting enjoyment of the facility without paying.
What’s fair?
In some cases, holiday let owners might allow extra people into their home, but it’s all about honesty and not taking advantage. To compare holiday letting with a hotel: it’s reasonable for a guest to invite their friend to their hotel room so that they can enjoy a drink together or an hour’s respite during a busy day. On the other hand, it’s clearly not ok to invite their friend to stay overnight in said hotel room when they haven’t paid, as the hotel is losing out on custom.
The difficulty is that unlike with hotels, people who’ve booked a holiday home generally think of it as ‘theirs’ which means they’re more inclined to treat it as their own and invite their friends and family. Unfortunately, there’s a fine line and for owners whose holiday let is their business, the situation just isn’t fair. The only way to ensure that things aren’t made difficult for the owner is to check first. And if guests don’t want to ask the question, it’s probably because they’re aware that their request crosses the line of fairness and isn’t going to be approved!
To conclude
We’d advise holiday let owners to stipulate in their booking terms and conditions the maximum numbers of guests allowed at their property, whether that be inside or outside, at any given time throughout the booking duration, and to make it clear that extra people aren’t allowed without express permission.
From a guest’s point of view, if you want to invite a few extra friends over for the afternoon, just check with the owner first and get permission. You might have to pay a small ‘extra guest’ fee, but at least you have the comfort of knowing you’re not breaking the rules.
For people who are interested in buying a holiday let and want to avoid big groups of people, it’s a good idea to look carefully at the size of the property, its location, and its facilities. A four-bedroom house with large garden and hot tub is more likely to tempt guests to invite their loved ones around!
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